Cute & Sweet Paragraphs
“Hey, gorgeous. :) Just wanted to let you know you’re always on my mind. I can’t get anything done because I can’t stop thinking about you. It’s like we’re never apart, because even when we’re miles away from one another, you’re still the only thing I’m thinking about.”
“It might sound cheesy, but talking to you is always the best part of my day. If a single day goes by that I don’t see or speak to you, my whole day is gray skies.”
“I’m so grateful for your presence in my life, babe! I’m not a super mushy person, but you just bring out the best in me and I can’t imagine my life without you in it.”
“You’re one of my favorite people, you know that? You’re hilarious, brilliant, creative, and just a total dork—and I can’t get enough. Every day is better with you in it.”
“I was walking by the park today and I saw an elderly couple sitting on a bench holding hands, and I just thought, ‘Dang, I wonder if that’ll be us someday?’ ;)”
“I love hanging out with you more than anyone else, but the time always goes way too fast when we’re together! If I could, I’d stop time so we could spend eternity with one another.”
Good Morning Paragraphs
“Hey Sasha! Just wanted to send along this little text to say I hope your day is utterly fantastic. You deserve every good thing that comes your way today!”
“Gooooood moooorning! I hope you’re ready for your big math test! You’re gonna pass with flying colors. I’ve got coffee and a donut waiting for you before class today to help you keep your energy up, and if you don’t get here soon I’m gonna eat it myself so chop chop!”
“Hey Yvonne! This is your official good morning text. :) Hope you slept amazingly last night and dreamt of every wonderful thing and not, like, spiders or something. Make sure to give yourself at least one treat today, OK babe? (If you don’t, I will!)”
“Morning Gabe. <3 I hope you’re walking into today feeling energized and happy! I’m sending you all the best vibes today—love and courage and faith and peace. I’ll be thinking about you.”
“Bonjour sexy! :) I thought I’d send along a little texty-text to help you start your morning off right. I can’t wait to see you later tonight and in the meantime I hope you have an amazing day! You deserve it.”
“Good morning alert! Hoping this cheerful little greeting gets your day started with a smile—the thought of you always makes MY morning a little better!”
Deep Emotional Paragraphs
“I’m falling for you, hard. I love you a little more each day. I always think it’s not possible to adore you more than I do, and then you do something to drive me wild. I can’t imagine life without you.”
“Not a day goes by that I don’t ask God what I did to deserve you in my life! Your soul and mine must be one and the same because the connection between us is so strong.”
“You’re the most important person in the world to me. When you’re hurt or sad, I can’t focus on anything else except wanting to make everything better for you. Nothing else matters to me except protecting you and showing you how loved you are.”
Is your crush a lit nerd? Many great romantic lines have already been written—why not sprinkle some quotes from the masters into your conversation? “If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more.” (Jane Austen, Emma) “I have a strange feeling with regard to you. As if I had a string somewhere under my left ribs, tightly knotted to a similar string in you. And if you were to leave I'm afraid that cord of communion would snap. And I have a notion that I'd take to bleeding inwardly.” (Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre) “The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.” (bell hooks, All About Love)
Appreciative Paragraphs
“Do you know how unique you are? There’s never been anyone in the world like you before, and there never will be again.”
“I’ve never felt so cared for by anyone before. I feel like you see parts of me nobody else does, including myself. I’ve never felt so seen.”
“I hope you realize how special you are. I’ve never met anyone quite like you before. Nobody has ever been so sweet, thoughtful, and compassionate, quirky, hilarious, and creative. You’re one in a million.”
“I’m so grateful the universe brought you into my life. I don’t know what I was doing before I met you, but I realize now I never really knew what happiness was before I fell for you. I was just sleepwalking.”
“You’re just the most amazing person. I’m blown away by you each and every day. Your sense of humor, your wisdom, your kindness. I fall asleep thinking of you, I dream about you every night, and each morning I wake up with you on my mind.”
“I just wanted to tell you you’re fantastic, in case nobody else has done that today. Someone should tell you every day how wonderful you are—preferably me. I want to spend the rest of my life telling you how incredible you are.”
I Love You Paragraphs
“Hey Yolanda, I have to confess something to you. In case it’s not patently obvious by now, I’m head over heels for you. I feel like we’ve really got something here, and I’m ready to see where it takes us. What do you think?”
“Jeff, I can’t stay silent on this anymore: I absolutely adore you. You’re the most amazing guy I’ve ever met, and I just had to tell you that. I don’t know if you feel the same, and I totally get it if you’re not on the same page, but I had to try.”
“Hey Kazuo, I know we’ve been texting basically nonstop the last few weeks, and I just have to tell you: I’m crazy about you. I never want to stop talking to you, and I’d love to go out sometime and see where this goes.”
“Beth, I’m in love with you. I’ve never known anyone like you, and I think we’d make a great pair. I’d love to take you to dinner this weekend—what do you say?”
“Cards on the table: I’m super into you. I’m so into you it’s not even funny. I know we’ve been joking around a lot the last week or 2, and it’s been so much fun, but it’s time to get serious: I’m in love with you.”
“Every minute I spend away from you is agony. Everything I do, I do thinking about you. The last month of talking to you has convinced me we belong together. The thought of not being with you—I can’t breathe. I don’t know if you feel the same way, but if you do, it’ll make me happier than I’ve ever been in my life.”
Customization Tips
Tailor your text to your crush’s experience, if possible. They’re sure to appreciate a friendly, supportive text message, but your message will be especially meaningful if you know they’ve got something particularly hectic or stressful planned, like a job interview or a math exam. The more you can tailor your text to your crush’s situation, the more meaningful they’ll find it. Customizing your text to reflect your crush’s mood, personality, daily schedule, upcoming plans, or life experience will show them you’re paying attention to them—a subtle way to show you care for them that they’re sure to appreciate!
Keep your message surface-level if you don't know them well. Whether you’ve only just begun chatting or you’re tiptoeing towards relationship territory, everyone likes to get a friendly, encouraging text message, but the depth and vulnerability you display in your text message will depend on how close you are to your crush. If your crush gave you their number yesterday, it’s probably best not to send them a block of text about how you’re both soulmates. Take it slow! Start with a cheerful, lowkey good morning text instead that makes it clear you like them, but that doesn’t come on too strongly. Dole out sincere but lighthearted compliments, or grab their attention by letting them know you’re thinking about them. Maybe include a meme you think they’ll love.
Get a little more vulnerable if you’ve been talking for a while. If you’ve built a solid foundation with your crush and you think they might have feelings for you too, you can be a bit more vulnerable with your message. A raw, honest message about how much your crush means to you is sure to create a stronger connection between you both. A sincere text to let them know how much joy and peace they bring to your life is sure to make them smile—and draw them closer to you. If you haven’t shared your true feelings with your crush yet, a text or DM can be a great way to tell them you love them without the pressure of a face-to-face confession. When confessing your feelings, you can play it cool and practical and let them know you’d like to try going out on a date, or lay your feelings out on the table and tell them you’re head-over-heels in love. Regardless, be open and sincere—and then leave the ball in their court.
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